Tuesday, November 10, 2015

14. Not Making Time “Just to Talk”

James 1:19
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.

Ecclesiastes 3:7
A time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak.

Relationships are impossible to build without communication. To the degree (and only to the degree) that God has revealed Himself to us in the Bible, can we have a relationship with Him. As parents and children alike reveal themselves to each other through various communication forms, their relationships with each other are strengthened. Revelation of oneself is a biblical prerequisite for effective relationships.

When Mom and dad allow the pressures and pleasures of life to keep them from spending enough time in the revelation/communication process, strong parent/child relationships are not established. In addition to provoking children to wrath, this weakening of the parent/child relationship motivates children to build closer relationships with friends instead of parents.

No comments:

Post a Comment